You should be more brave, and post some pictures!
There, now that's out the way... 😂

Not sure on the rules for this room. I wouldn't start a topic here, but I don't know whether it's not the done thing and in bad taste for me to even comment as a man, but here I go anyway.

The whole point of your fantasy/kink/fetish is that it's yours. I agree that the moment is for you, regardless of whether it matches others' chosen adventurous explorations in a similar state and setting. That's irrelevant, it's your time for memory making, for you.

I'd assume most would understand that the idea of having to manage a photoshoot for posterity and documentation reasons might, ever so slightly, break the moment, and ruin the fun. It's enough of an effort and risk (part of the thrill) to go through with it. Add to that an extra pressure to capture 'the moment', and instead of the natural, unique experience, you've got a badly rehearsed clip show, lacking in genuine soul and spark.

To liken it to gaming. Being coerced into making every joyride through GTA into a live twitch stream, is going to remove the spontaneity of a random play for most people. The freedom is lost to explore and go nuts, because the spectre of 'is it good enough for the viewers' will be on your shoulder, making you second guess each decision based on if it's suitable 'content', or up to the standard expected by a viewing public that you'll never know, and owe nothing to.

...or in your case, the thrill will be diminished by the second guessing of if you should take the shot with the primary focus being on your left arse cheek, or your right? 🤔😂

Big decisions, added pressure, and suddenly, before you know it, fun becomes a chore, and an enjoyable fantasy, a crushing reality of gruelling to-do lists. So, not hypocrisy, just personal preference, like everything else!

Now, please feel free to show me the door, if my long-winded, XY views are not welcome here, and I shall never frequent this room again 😊

...oh, and don't forget those pictures! 😉😂😂

I can definitely relate to this tbh. I love exhibitionism in general, as a concept, and sometimes I’ve partaken in my own time but there’s just, idk, a line I never felt the real need to cross and that’s just generally been posting myself to anyplace. Beyond a certain point it just really hasn’t held an appeal to me. I can definitely appreciate those to whom it does hold an appeal, though! (Hi gigi!)