RiskyDanielle said
I'm not going to nitpick the whole rant, but I just went for the easiest and quickest to verify with cold hard numbers. I went to ThisVid to check your claims:
"the ENF based content seems to be greatly outnumbered by the ENM" - I searched ENM and got just over 7000 video results, and I searched ENF and got just under 9000. objectively, ENF isn't even outnumbered by ENM, let alone greatly outnumbered
"in most cases the ENF are set as private, with the ENM as public" - I looked at the first page of both my searches. for ENM, 22 of the videos were private. for ENF, 24 were private. incredibly close to each other, barely any difference between how many are privated in one or the other.
you say that "to pretend there is a fair balance currently, is misleading at best" as if things have gone too far towards ENM, even though it hasn't even hit the 50/50 equal balance point yet. I'm not arguing about how you feel, I'm sure it appears to you like there is way more ENM than ENF content there... but that doesnt line up with the actual facts. I hope you find it reassuring that the actual numbers show that your perception that it has "swung too far the other direction" and is "mainly leaning one way only" is not true.
  

I will concede your point on the search result count for the terms of ENF versus ENM being as they are. I really should have been more specific about the type of recommended/related videos that are shown under certain video pages, not all of which have the title/tag including the ENF/ENM label.

However, my perception of the level of male vs female exposure in media over recent years is not solely based on the offerings of ThisVid. I didn't include every reference for my stance in my previous message, and nor should I have, it turned into enough of a protectionist based shout at the clouds as it was! 😂 But, suffice to say, my perception has been formed from a wide range of sources over time, including the internet, what I've seen in popular media, and the reactions of others to it.

Once again, I'm not decrying, or calling for male nudity to be verboten. My sentiments towards what I've observed to have changed regarding the current balance of things is really just a part of what I see as a wider change in the overall adult material available, especially online, and that is more concerning. But I won't start on that much larger debate, as it isn't the relevant argument for this topic about the possibility of changing the basis of this site from ENF to include ENM.

Thanks for your response, I enjoy these more in depth chats here, as a counter to the usually streamlined 'watch video, click thanks' experience. Not that there's anything wrong with that either! 😎

bitsnbobs said
My personal opinion, with little evidence, is that an independent site would be unlikely to gain sufficient support to justify the costs.
  

I kind of agree. There's a difference between someone at McDonalds HQ adding a new item to the menu VS them trying to serve their new recipe by starting a whole fast food company from scratch. If ENM was going to be an option, it makes a lot more sense to simply add it to this site as a thing that serves certain customers (like the filet-o-fish) rather than creating the hurdle of needing to set up the infrastructure and find the community for a whole new website.

Honestly, I have no idea how much demand there would be for it (or how reliable the supply would be). But it's not like it would end up on the main page or anything. And it would be nice to have a thread where people could put videos they find and the people interested in it could see them, in the same way that there are threads for lesbian scenes or peeing or cat-fights.

I mean… I’m bi, so I wouldn’t be opposed to it. I’ve never ran a website before so I don’t know how difficult this would be to do, but the easiest compromise I think would be to create some kind of filter for content with male nudity, female nudity, or both, and anyone could just select the filters they want. If the ENF and ENM content are kept completely separate, I don’t see how anyone could really get upset over its inclusion.